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in case you didn't see this from last night :)

yep - officially on the bandwagon
please go here and tell me what you think of zee cindymonkey

http://kevan.org/johari?name=cindymonkey

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Happy Valentines Day mon petit monquis
I have some special treats I will post you in a bit. :)

love love love
from me to you

and if you're in SF
don't forget - pillow fight club at justin herman plaza @ 6
and desperately seeking susan at the parkway in oakland at 7(i think)

You could have the KEWLEST Valentines EVAH

A perfect San Francisco Valentine's Night includes the one two punch of:

PILLOW FIGHT CLUB:

Rock out your inner child, your inner deviant, or just bash the shit out of your friends and lovers will pillows tonight at 6pm @ Justin Herman Plaza. Pillows are provided, it's free, and the extra bonus is you might get to scare / whale on some yuppies without actually hurting anyone! Wahoo.

and once you're all revved up and enthusiastic - head over to City Lights for readings from the new book Homewrecker - An Adultery Reader. Think all spoken word events are the same? not this one punchy. be prepared to be wowed.


Homewrecker: An Adultery Reader features stories that explore contemporary nuances of cheating, asking the reader to consider that there may be something wrong with our existing system of heterosexual monogamy rather than with those who transgress it. As editor Daphne Gottlieb acknowledges in the introduction, "there are certain times you have no other choice — not honoring this fascination, this car crash of desire, is also a lie." (KK)

when: Tue 2.14 (7pm)
where: City Lights (261 Columbus Ave, 415.362.8193)
price: FREE



and if you're sick of all the free shit, now you're in North Beach - so you can go watch some tail at the Lusty Lady (SF's best Peep Show! bring your quarters) or drink some booze at the best hidden famous bar in town, Specs.

have a good time people!

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my valentine to you is at www.addictingclips.com
seriously
the featured films there - i programmed em... just for you

there is a skeleton dancing to that's amore by dean martin
cupid gets shot in the fact
a hilarious dating cartoon called hearts and hammers
and teddy bears getting it on

happy valentines day
love you

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i got an LJ rose
awwwwwwwww
ok - that made the craptastic afternoon SUDDENLY get better
yay for lovins

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unlike the completly bitchy and misogynistic treatment that me and my table of female pals got at harveys post queer open mic last week (from not one but TWO waiters) tonight we ventured into north beach unexpectedly, and once again got some of the best restaurant service / experience ever.

so based on the high winds and dropping temps of SF today as the sun set, at the last minute we scrapped our bonfire on the beach picnic idea for valentines day and got caught in the decision... do we order in from the elite cafe, time honored sf cajun/creole tradition or do we go back to north beach, land of horrible parking and worse tourists to go to andrew jaegers house of jazz. as usual with me involved, jazz won. add to that the food at jaegers always being way above the bar, and the last time i overspent at the elite cafe, i was sorely disappointed in my over breaded and food that was more burnt than blackened.

so we went. food was good, though the appetizer sampler was more variety based and not as much sheer deliciousness as other specific appetizers like the crab cakes. i decided to keep the variety theme going, especially since, for once, i wasn't in a crab mood and that was the fish of the night. so i got the sampler. amazing red beans and rice. jambalaya that was rich enough that i thought there may have even been cheese in it, but i think it was just good spice choices, and catfish that came close to rita's for melt in my mouth good. i couldn't stuff the gumbo so i have it for later. and the chocolate cake was a bit dry without all of the sundae pieces. but that said, it was the best and moistest 'dry' cake i have had in a long time.

jazz band was grand. i mean they were a little heavy on the upbeat songs, but they were great. sax player did a solo just for us, and the whole band seemed taken by our attention to the music. when the mister made my request for st. james infirmary blues, she was told by the drummer, well we try to play more upbeat, but if we don't all know that one, we'll try to fin another angsty one to play. hilarious - even my jazz taste is angsty.

amazing service from our waitress who gave us not one, but two glasses of complimentary champagne each. one was for the holiday, one was for slow (but not really) bar service while we waited. one of the bartenders was out. honestly, couldn't even tell.

we got some serious gaybot loving. the food server i am pretty sure was family, as were a few other waiters. food server chick told us (but no one else in our room) that the original actor who played chewbaca was in the next booth over. she got his autograph. she thought it would make our night more special to know. how cool is that?

seriously, amazing food, even better service and overall, the best and most romantic night out in forever. i heart andrew jaegers house of seafood & jazz.

anyway - helped us decide something. this year is the first one ever since we've met that we aren't tied to the queer film festival during our anniversary. so... we're going to new orleans. for a week. i want to put my tourist $$ in there. to that city i have been to so many times now. that i love. that i will always love for how amazing it and the people who live there are. and continue to be. awesome. so excited. it will be seven years for us. and our first real vacation together that isn't caught up in families. i had better make sure to not have performances during that week or crap something will have to change.