existential attraction ethics
Feb. 25th, 2005 02:32 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
emchywhat are the ethics around wanting someone to find you hot, even if you don't want to fuck / date them...
to the extent of even dressing up for them, etc.
based on a recent conversation - hoping to get the LJ chime in
is it just an ego trip? need for validation? a mindfuck? being manipulative / tease?
thoughts please.
to the extent of even dressing up for them, etc.
based on a recent conversation - hoping to get the LJ chime in
is it just an ego trip? need for validation? a mindfuck? being manipulative / tease?
thoughts please.
