existential attraction ethics

[emchy]

what are the ethics around wanting someone to find you hot, even if you don't want to fuck / date them...

to the extent of even dressing up for them, etc.

based on a recent conversation - hoping to get the LJ chime in

is it just an ego trip? need for validation? a mindfuck? being manipulative / tease?

thoughts please.

Comments

[lofiordie.livejournal.com]

i say go for it. if you have no romantic intentions what's the harm? i mean as long as that shit is layed out on the line-- i think it's okay. iwant people to think i am hot all the time- lots of them and i certainly dont want to date or fuck them.

i say do it to it.

[cindymonkey.livejournal.com]

rock it out

i was also thinking - as i read the responses - what the hell is the harm in flirting?

[nerak-g.livejournal.com]

TEASE!!!>};-) (takes one to know...

[cindymonkey.livejournal.com]

ah ha! :)
well...
teasing can be fun

[agenthandy.livejournal.com]

you know, i always walk around believing that most people find me hot. and wanting them to. i don't see anything wrong with a little self-esteem boost. fuck it. if you don' t want someone to find you hot, noone else will. right?